I’m done gritting my teeth, 😬 Trying to “Get Through” things in my business and life.
I haven’t historically let myself ENJOY things.
My goal 🥅 has always been to stabilize a situation. “Once I get through this, I can relax.”
Where I’ll be under the covers, holding my wife, feeling warm, safe and secure.
I’ve done this in every area of my life.
Finances. “When I can get to $500,000/year, I’ll feel safe and secure. I can relax then.”
My work days. “When I finish my last call of the day, I’ll feel safe and secure. I can relax then.”
My relationship. “When I get married, I’ll feel safe and secure. I can relax then.”
I did that one ☝🏼, and I’ve finished many work days, and my finances are climbing every year towards that number.
But thats exactly the problem. I have these things, and yet I only relax in fleeting moments. Never with finality like I imagine I will, when I’m on the way.
I haven’t allowed myself to FULLY sink in to my marriage until recently.
At the end of the work day, I didn’t relax, I collapsed.
It’s a rushed kind of living, never being present, but more importantly NOT viscerally finding ENJOYMENT in the process.
Many of us try to lie to ourselves and say we really enjoy what we’ve created, but many of us actually just want to feel stable. Settled. And we think that a singular event will do that.
Rather than enjoying the bumpy ride, all along the way. I’m not saying Chaos. But constant change – yes.
I want to orient myself to this ride that’s always changing. Never the same. Never looking like how I imagined it might.
🔑: Isolated events outside of you don’t make life better. How you experience LIFE INSIDE Of you is what makes life better. #aligned
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