{"id":1207,"date":"2019-03-02T11:44:44","date_gmt":"2019-03-02T11:44:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/matthewtcooke.com\/?p=1207"},"modified":"2020-03-03T04:44:50","modified_gmt":"2020-03-03T04:44:50","slug":"im-scared-of-intimacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/matthewtcooke.com\/im-scared-of-intimacy\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019M SCARED OF INTIMACY"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"In the flesh.<\/p>\n

\u201cThings are going to be more in the flesh for you this year. That\u2019s what they keep telling me\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

A few weeks back, My friend Emily Aub\u00e9 was giving me a forecast reading of my year ahead.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey\u2019re saying your PRESENCE is what\u2019s needed this year.\u201d<\/p>\n

My response: \u201cWHAT?!!! But it\u2019s so easy for me to just work from my minimalist office, calling clients and connecting with people on Facebook LIVE!!<\/p>\n

Not FAIR!\u201d<\/p>\n

I like to have my routines. I love consistency.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the real truth:<\/p>\n

I\u2019m magical \ud83d\udcab<\/span><\/span> in person.<\/p>\n

Being in my atmosphere seems to turn on another gear in others.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t say that to brag, but more to say it\u2019s in the transmission of me hanging out with you that you\u2019ll gain way more than in strictly the information I share online.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019ve been really scared of that.<\/p>\n

Of the intimacy.<\/p>\n

To be close to you, feel your breath, see your eyes, up close, and give you exactly the words, touch or posture that you need.<\/p>\n

I call it Body-Based Breakthrough.<\/p>\n

I do it for groups of 4-100, and 1-on-1.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a process I\u2019ve been honing for 8 years.<\/p>\n

It includes neuroscience, simple movements, breath, and journaling.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m realizing this is meant to be shared, not just with my clients and not just online, but but masses of people…in person.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve seen stadiums \ud83c\udfdf<\/span><\/span> of us: moving and breathing and thousands of breakthroughs and insights dropping down from the heavens upon us. i.e. magic. \ud83d\udcab<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been scared. But it\u2019s not about me. It\u2019s about you. And your audience. And your people.<\/p>\n

With YOU (and Amanda<\/a> and Sophie) as my witness, this is yours to have this year, and for the next decades. I will stop at nothing until the whole Entrepreneur community has this wisdom gifted to me by God.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m stepping in and stepping up.<\/p>\n

To you, desiring to be the Integrated Entrepreneur: Who wants to maintain your health, WHILE growing your wealth, (and helping tons of humans),<\/p>\n

This medicine is here for you. Please come take it. It will change the way you do everything. Relationships to your Body, Your SELF, your loved ones, and finally your craft. Your vision for the world.<\/p>\n

If you know (or are) an event planner, who hires or coordinates logistics, shoot me a DM. I\u2019ll gift you a session.<\/p>\n

People need this medicine.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s coming out this year baby.<\/p>\n

Tagging a quarter of my favorite humans who have really inspired this vision in the last couple of months.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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