I’M SICK OF BEING THE ONLY RESPONSIBLE ONE

You’ve had to play the role of taking responsibility for others, because when you grew up there was someone who couldn’t take responsibility for themselves… Who couldn’t manage their emotions, so you had to do it for them. It was way too young an age you had to play the role of parent to whoever it was…

And since then, when you see somebody who needs support, it’s really easy to save them, and make them feel safe and supported… but way too difficult to tell them how YOU TRULY feel, because it feels like you could break them If you told them the truth…

Like they couldn’t handle all of you,

Like you are too much.

So every time you hang out or spend time with them, be they a client, a partner, or a friend

It feels draining, or there’s the fear that it’s going to take from you to be around them with all of their needs and wants…

So you either continue to play the Savior, and trying to rescue them,

Or you can pull back, and become the Lone wolf, choosing to do it all on your own, because it’s just too exhausting with other people.

Creative Warrior Key 🔑: + Give them back their Power. Today + Stop shouldering the load of responsibility for them, and give it back to them for them to handle.

You deserve more bandwidth for all of the cool shit you’re creating as an entrepreneur.

And THEY deserve the freedom to learn to take care of themselves…it’s such a gift. + Create safety for YOURSELF first, and be able to tell them what you’re feeling, before creating safety for others. It just creates resentment towards them and yourself.

It’s your time to drive forward your mission, AND have mind blowing relationships.
You got this Creative Warrior,
Matthew

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